Is there a question you sometimes ask people to help quickly decide if you'll end up liking them or not?
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I improvise my way through every conversation pretty much, the idea of having pre-selected questions for everyone kinda weirds me out
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I have a list of questions to fall back on in some circumstances - like if I'm feeling socially awkward and I don't know what to say, or if I'm in a place with a lot of people and not a lot of time and I feel like hunting for connection with max efficiently
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Have you ever done the 36 questions that make you fall in love with someone thing?
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I generally prefer being the awkward 1 than doing sth like this, sounds cynical😑
I often start weird/deep convs at some point, tho, to see how they respond to my thoughts (mostly to re-evaluate my own opinions & consider new POVs but I do get an idea of their mentality as well).