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that being said, sometimes men with a lot of power *are* creepy and pressure women into doing things that are *not consensual.* And maybe that happens here. But the key is, *not consensual*. That's why it's bad. The parties themselves are not consent violations, fuck.
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Something Louis C.K. said in his apology was "...when you have power over another person, asking them to look at your dick isn’t a question. It’s a predicament for them." I think maybe you hit the nail on the head when you speak of the pressure to participate in these parties.
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