Many men seem to get off sexually by calling women mean names--slut, whore-- But when I engage sexually with a man, all I do is compliment him...? Being mean to men in bed: a kink. Being mean to women: the norm.
men are into so much other weird shit, if you're gonna kinkshame ppl at least pick the right kinks
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I'm not kinkshaming. I'm speaking to my lifelong experience as a sex worker. Truly a sign of the times when I can't remark upon the proliferation of male abuse of women and be "tut-tutted" for not being woke.
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Work in a cam room, on the strip club stage, as a fssw, meet a man for the first time, immediately he's calling you "little slut" etc. This isn't kink play btwn two consenting adults. This is default treatment of a woman you've never met in service of sexual gratification.
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This phenomenon happens outside of sex work as well--have sex with man, he's calling me "slut," "whore" as an apparent turn-on. Never have I called a man names like this as my default sexual behavior. This is a gender issue embedded in millennia of cultural conditioning.
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So in summary: sure, some folks enjoy degradation kink. More power to them. That's not what I'm referring to, however. I'm referring to cultural conditioning that normalizes male degradation of women when the reverse is far from normalized.
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