Many men seem to get off sexually by calling women mean names--slut, whore--
But when I engage sexually with a man, all I do is compliment him...?
Being mean to men in bed: a kink.
Being mean to women: the norm.
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i feel like being mean to women in bed is a kink too.... its just more common that men prefer that kink than women do. Women also are more likely to prefer rapeplay than men are.
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actually now that i think about it i think women probably like being called names more than men like calling them names. I didn't ask about that specifically but I did a study on the sexual fetish preferences of genders and women were way more into the powerplay stuff
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aellagirl.com/2017/07/03/sex yeah women are way more into rapeplay, sadism/masochism, males dominating, women submitting, choking, and heavy bondage. "Calling women degrading names" seems like that's something women would want more than men do.
men are into so much other weird shit, if you're gonna kinkshame ppl at least pick the right kinks
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I'm not kinkshaming. I'm speaking to my lifelong experience as a sex worker. Truly a sign of the times when I can't remark upon the proliferation of male abuse of women and be "tut-tutted" for not being woke.