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Article short version: Accordions are easy to play. You can focus on making "good music" with them, forget about the instrument. Sitars are hard to play. You remain engaged with the instrument, its not easy to make "good music", it's hard to forget about the instrument.
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Accordion relationships are people who are easy to date, with the goal of a "good relationship." Sitar relationships are people who are difficult to date, where the focus is more on working with the person, and "good relationship" being a secondary goal.
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Accordion relationships value being frictionless and easy. Sitar relationships get value out of having friction and challenge.
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