PSA: Don’t ask a SW about their personal life. If we want to share, we will. We create boundaries for a reason. We protect those who have not chosen the lifestyle that we’ve chosen. This goes ESPECIALLY for moms. Don’t ask if we have children. If we want to share, we will.
It's okay to ask personal questions publicly to me! I think I'm unusual though. I'm fine with instituting norms and it's good for people to know that usually SWs really dislike it, but I don't like people speaking for me on what people should or should not ask me.