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If a guy im potentially interested in sends a poor okc message and ruins it, i often wanna critique, like I wanna be helpful and let them know why they turned me off. This is not great in practice tho. They always try to fix it like 'are you into me now?'

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and i'm like, no, messaging me the right words because i told you how to do it does not turn me on

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When I ask why a girl rejected me it's so I can refute the misconception about me or life that they have, but I prepare to be wrong bc that's polite Those okc guys might want you to look past pickup lines and judge them as people (unless you can critique their character)

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It's a more complicated than that. For example, I had an okc convo with one guy where I was being obvs playful and not serious bout something, but he didn't pick up on the playfulness and responded seriously, which turned me off. How should I have responded?

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Ohh and he tried to fix it after you told him you weren't serious?