I find the amount of 'slut-shamy' feelings I get (towards both myself and others) increases when in the presence of men who view sex as something that makes them more valuable, and decreases when around men who seem to not care.
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This is incredibly interesting because it implies that status is multidimensional. It's not just about relative ranking, but the configuration of multiple ranked traits. Sex as means to an end objectifies and commodifies the other person;
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a high status person objectifying you is dangerous b/c it means they may not play by social norms and so you can't predict their behavior; and someone using you to enhance their status would imply that you're lower status, which may be the trigger for the shameful component?
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