I find the amount of 'slut-shamy' feelings I get (towards both myself and others) increases when in the presence of men who view sex as something that makes them more valuable, and decreases when around men who seem to not care.
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Ooh no I'm not referring to that part as ungracious. I mean condescending conduct in general. Someone being condescending about their perceived higher status, or displaying arrogance in a general sense. Most people are turned off by any sense of that.
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To clarify: Low-status triggers unattraction. "Demonstrating kingliness" triggers protection and slut shamey feelings, but I can still feel very attracted to the person "demonstrating kingliness." Like, "You really turn me on but you'll make me feel used"
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Ahh, that's extremely clarifying, and I'd have to think on that for a while, but perhaps it's a recognition of the power component? As in, "holy shit this person is so powerful they might actually be dangerous." Would explain why attraction still remains but also the unease.
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