Entering parties with detailed and explicit rules about consent, pronouns, inclusiveness, etc., makes me feel 'more' uncomfortable
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It feels like people are oriented around 'protecting,' which isn't necessarily bad or anything, I just maybe don't like protected atmosphere
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like 30% more ppl as of tonight
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It's the "Seeing Like a State" of social interaction: by making rules that are legible it deletes all sorts of illegible social escalations.
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It would only make me feel uncomfortable I was the only one who had to have the rules pointed out to me.
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Society presses to make you care about everyone's feelings even about ppl that you dont know but nobody cares about intelectual diversity
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It's the 21st C, for parties we should all agree to name our phones Bluetooth with our preferred name, conversation topics and pronouns.
