Is it ok to limit a bf or gf's behavior due to personal preference/insecurity, even if no measurable harm is done?
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No, as that's trying to control someone else, and that's never gonna result in a good relationship.
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well I think romantic partners should generally be considerate of each other's comfort
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Depends upon the behavior in question. You give your partner a choice, cigs or you, and if they choose you, they improve health.
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If you do not like your partner "as is", trying to force behavior, for whatever reason, will bring friction to the relationship.