Can someone explain to me the whole "submissives really have the power in the scene"? Something about that doesn't seem right
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If the dom wants to stop, you stop. But only in one of those positions does someone have the power to not respect another's stop
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But the dom also determines limits of what they don't want to do. Both people have limits and are expected to respect that.
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well, in a true BDSM relationship, the sub is in full control of what the dom is allowed to do. But not all relationships are.
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the submissive yields consent, therefore they control the flow of the relationship. One safeword and it's over
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they can use a safe word at anytime and stop a scene cold. Of course the Dom should be skilled enough to make that not happen
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well assuming the Top obeys the safeword, the sub can speak that word at any time and stop the scene. in theory
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basically, it just comes down to consent. The sub is consenting for X to be done, and the domme can't do anything otherwise.