I wrote a post explaining why I can't say yes to sex: on rapeplay and power dynamics aellagirl.tumblr.com/post/145112802
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Yes, definitely. I always have a safe word. Usually my partner can tell if I'm SERIOUSLY not in the mood, so I rarelyuse it
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But then the question becomes: If your lover can't ask for sex, what is the defining line between consensual play and real rape?
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Non-verbal communication is a factor in this. In normal circumstances I'd think the other can tell when you're not into it.
something like this varies person to person, it does require some knowledge on a personal level... The easiest tell 1/2
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there's more ways this would work than can be expressed in 140 characters though. It's up to would-be lovers to learn ...
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You are on the right track. You are by no means alone with your mental challenges. Society is not helping.