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An interesting study on rates of attraction in opposite-gendered friendships.
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we’d probably be facing a serious overpopulation crisis. say what :pff2
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I have female friends who I am not attracted to but in the vast majority of cases I am.
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where I differ from the study is my automatic assumption is that it is NOT mutual.
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It's very difficult for me to realize when it actually *is* mutual unless I get a very clear, not hinted, signal from her.
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this is a problem because I'm very much "friends first". I don't approach strangers for dates. (On what basis? Pure looks?)