ty! I'm realizing in hindsight i shoulda put a name section in case a question was good enough to be used in a place to credit someone? i just pooped out the chaos survey idea in 2 seconds and didnt think it through
It was, in the end, a Bad Thing. Most people are not DTF at that age, so I trapped myself in this tiny bubble of other people who were, and had a massively skewed vision of relationships for many years.