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Aella
@Aella_Girl
alright young women, gonna give you some advice. If you want to go fuck a ton of men, be promiscuous, sell your body... then go for it. If you wanna have a traditional monogamous marriage where you raise kids and never fuck anyone else for the rest of your life... ALSO go for it
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
different pockets of culture will push you different ways, will reward different strategies. Do some serious introspection, look at the wide array of both happy and unfulfilled people in each lifestyle, and make a conscious, careful choice about which one you're more suited for.
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jbrueschke
@zamorin88
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@Aella_Girl
This is a false choice: Instead, do Option 1 first and learn what you really like/don’t like and what you want in a man and most importantly learn about yourself / what makes you happy Then pursue Option 2 and marry the right guy (hopefully), be faithful and raise a nice family
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Andrew
@Collapsonaut
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@Aella_Girl
No. It will be significantly more difficult to do either one after you've done the other. Our sexual lives have serious internal and external consequences that NEED to be contemplated. Exploration before contemplation will almost always lead to serious regret.
KShekar
@kshekar
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@Aella_Girl
Careful - assessing if people are happy and fulfilled on the surface is a lot harder than you think. And the odds that you get true longitudinal insight over different phases of their life are incredibly low.
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FreeNClarified
@FreeNClarified
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@Aella_Girl
Also I'd add - and be open to change as you age. Choices you make now might have lasting consequences but within those choices is a flexibility. And some things aren't as permanent as they seem.
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SAM 𓀤𓀥
@IamSam2025
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@Aella_Girl
There’re other healthy ways 2 have a successful fulfilling relationship. I’m monogamous, nd never thought I’d be in 1 relationship with 1 person 4 ever. I like being committed in a relationship till it expires nd move on to the next one with a real experience nd a good memory.