just wanna go on a date with a dude where he likes making all the decisions during sex and also the experience of listening to them talk is more interesting than being alone on my computer is that so much to ask
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not to toot my own damn horn but i feel like if im tryin to impress a date im always doin some friggin acrobatic conversation. honing in like a laser on the niche unobserved thing, pulling out the bedazzled intuitive query about their emotional state. and the men just starfish.
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just say something that takes me aback. i want to be slightly scandalized. i want to be shocked you went there. i want to worry what people around us would think if they heard us. i want to feel flushed, like i caught you observing my soul when i wasn't looking
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want u to be one step ahead of me some of the time and exactly in step with me the rest of it. wanna feel like you're evaluating me, undecided if i'm interesting enough for you. wanna feel actual challenge, like every skill i have is observed by someone who's been looking for it
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This is the stuff novels are made of. And it does exist but it's usually good for inspiration/mental masturbation not long-term relationships.
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idk both of the guys I'm dating fits this. One of them was kinda serious, we discussed getting married but didn't for other compatibility reasons. I def know it's possible!