just wanna go on a date with a dude where he likes making all the decisions during sex and also the experience of listening to them talk is more interesting than being alone on my computer is that so much to ask
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not to toot my own damn horn but i feel like if im tryin to impress a date im always doin some friggin acrobatic conversation. honing in like a laser on the niche unobserved thing, pulling out the bedazzled intuitive query about their emotional state. and the men just starfish.
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just say something that takes me aback. i want to be slightly scandalized. i want to be shocked you went there. i want to worry what people around us would think if they heard us. i want to feel flushed, like i caught you observing my soul when i wasn't looking
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want u to be one step ahead of me some of the time and exactly in step with me the rest of it. wanna feel like you're evaluating me, undecided if i'm interesting enough for you. wanna feel actual challenge, like every skill i have is observed by someone who's been looking for it
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how many total people have you met where talking to them is more interesting than being on your computer?
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literally every single aspect of the modern culture encourages men to act in the opposite way to what you are describing
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every aspect of modern culture encourages me to act in the opposite way to what i act yet here i am
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What makes you think that a man like that will be ok with what you offer (a quick encounter then move on, or at best "sharing" you with whomever)?
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I've met them before! ppl always forget that they'll be sharing me with others but also that I'll help get then laid with others too. I'm a good wingman
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