cheating usually scratches a different itch than poly does as tempting as it may be to pretend otherwise
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I'm not sure about this? maybe my sample is biased but I think most of the men who cheated on their wives with me could have scratched that itch with polyamory
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Dudes are greedy and want it closed on her side and open on theirs.
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I mean true but I was thinking more like
-I want to have sex with more people
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-my spouse does not pay attention to me anymore and it hurts
Are uh only sort of overlapping problems
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but that is you as an escort, yes? that imo is a different kind of cheating than cheating with a coworker i think. the first is to get laid — something (sex maybe) is missing from their marriage. the latter is excitement. even if their marriage ends, they rarely date the coworker
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