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Aella
@Aella_Girl
my poly life has been amazing in recent years, but it hasn't always been so good; there's been periods where I was less confident, dating people where I was less secure about the connection, and this combination made jealousy *really* hard to handle. 1/
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
my partner banging and loving someone else is a wonderful thing to see if I feel really good about myself and super secure in how much my partner loves me. If some part of me fears that I'm not good enough, then their relationship becomes really hard for me and I go a lil insane
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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@Aella_Girl
i just didnt wanna sell that im an enlightened poly guru too much on the timeline; i have definitely had my moments in embarrassing poly-induced freakouts before. I just now interpret those moments as signs that relationship probably wasn't right for me!
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Piq
@PiquantParvenu
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@Aella_Girl
This is exactly why I thought poly wasn’t for me for so long! It wasn’t until I met
@TheNerdsQuest
and experienced such a healthy, secure attachment that I realized it could be for me with the right man who I trust completely and feel loved by completely
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No
@_NoNahNope_
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@Aella_Girl
You’re just someone else’s pawn and he’s convinced you to be ok with it. It’s gonna end in tears and further down the track a lot worse.
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