my poly life has been amazing in recent years, but it hasn't always been so good; there's been periods where I was less confident, dating people where I was less secure about the connection, and this combination made jealousy *really* hard to handle. 1/
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my partner banging and loving someone else is a wonderful thing to see if I feel really good about myself and super secure in how much my partner loves me. If some part of me fears that I'm not good enough, then their relationship becomes really hard for me and I go a lil insane
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i just didnt wanna sell that im an enlightened poly guru too much on the timeline; i have definitely had my moments in embarrassing poly-induced freakouts before. I just now interpret those moments as signs that relationship probably wasn't right for me!
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NGL poly shit is to much work, I am far to lazy to even attempt that shit. It’s hard enough dealing with one person.
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I have yet to see a successful relationship that didn't take a lot of work over the long term.
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It’s “wonderful to see” someone desire what you have so bad, but it’s not sustainable.
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I’m super monogamous, too protective nd too jealous.Ppl r trying to convince themselves they’re secure enough to let their partners fuck other ppl, but it’s BS or maybe when you’ve experienced too much, U just want to settle nd focus on a whole experience that can add to ur life.
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