A lot of differences between male and female sexuality become clear if you give a few minutes consideration to why a male equivalent of Aella isn’t possible
The question really is about what you see as "male equivalent" because imo a female escort's male equivalent isn't a male escort but might just be a sexually open-minded man.
Some traits transfer 1:1 while some manifest even as far as the opposite way maybe.
i'm actually not sure about this? i think i would have agreed with you a lot in past years, but recently have started to be more confused about it. I've been encountering significantly more hostility recently that I don't think I would have been getting if I were a man.