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@Aella_Girl
Going for a run every morning is healthier than not, but also I would never insist everyone should go for a run every morning. Some ppl's lives just aren't structured for that, can't make it a priority, other things are important. This is kinda how I feel about monogamy
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What monogamy is: two people agreeing that they will be exclusively* mated to reach other for the purpose of forging a family, sharing intimacy, building physical & financial security - nurturing a companionship that will be strong enough to endure the trials of life and death.
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Monogamy is the choice, the bet, that the monogamous relationship has the best chance of surviving calamity and suffering of life. Desire or infidelity is like a cigarette, a guilty pleasure, maybe you occasionally indulge, but being a smoker is a bad bet.
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I don't think poly means lack of commitment. I think it's probably short-sighted in the long game. But maybe the are some 80 year old poly-folk who's relationships made the long trek.
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