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Aella
@Aella_Girl
i get that ppl sometimes really love specific niche lifestyles, but sometimes they fill my entire body with existential horror - like wanting a relationship where your husband totally controls your life, or taking vows and getting given a new name at a buddhist monastery
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
if someone's like 'naw this is the thing that deeply fulfills me' im gonna be like alrighty who am i to judge go do your thing. from my view MAPLE is deeply kinky, encompassingly fetishistic, life-altering masochism. I really hope they're all getting off on it well.
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puheenix
@puheenix
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@Aella_Girl
seems like people do this stuff to confirm/commit to existential changes they already feel are in some sense real. the phase of questioning and redefining their entire life’s purpose already happened, & they’re using the vows to maintain it this isn’t much weirder than marriage
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