guys stop freaking out, this is not even a high threshhold minus the IQ part, like what lady doesn't want an emotionally mature, driven, horny man, this seems like not an insane ask. i didnt even say rich or attractive!
closest I've gotten are rat/EA meetups and longevity/biotech meetups in the Boston area
Boston rat/EA meetups are more emotionally mature, higher IQ, and higher testosterone
Boston longevity/biotech meetups are more driven, more successful, and much hornier
You want a kickstarter for meetups with people like you - without the need for an organizer. Just aggregate by preferences. That sounds like a business idea.