there's nothing wrong with you or your relationship just because you want to have sex with other people
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there might be something wrong in cases where the desire to have sex with others is a *symptom* of an actual problem, but the desire in and of itself does not mean you're broken.
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Is there something wrong with me or my relationship if I don’t want to have sex with my wife?
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nothing wrong with you. If your relationship is defined as having to be exclusively sexual with your wife and you don’t want to have sex with your wife but you wanna have sex that’s a problem. You’re two humans who can evaluate the situation and make new decisions.
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These are the people we talk about, the people in these comments lmao
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This can be straightforward for anyone who understands basic genes, their evolution and has a smidge of perception skills regarding the traditional common marriage (and divorces). However, culture dictates thinking straightforward from basic principles like this is not the norm.
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Paraphrasing a quote somewhere in the book "Designer Relationships" that, "A wedding ring is not a genital nerve block"
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