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straight women: imagine a setup where u have a loyal primary partner/husband/babydaddy who u live with and have frequent sex with, and then you also go out and have more casual sex with new men every now and then for novelty or validation. Your men are all chill with this.

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Frankly, the desire to sleep with other people (separate from admiring/flirting/feeling attracted to) feels like a warning sign that something is wrong in the ship.

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it can be, but it's also often not; lots of people naturally feel urges for sexual novelty that's totally independent of relationship health! Your partner feeling interested in others does *not* mean there's anything wrong with you or your bond.

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For the majority of *normal* people, it *does* mean that, Aella.

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Yep. Meant to say “for me”, hope it was implied.

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Agree... But I think the desire for "novelty" and "variety" is much more an aspect of "male sexuality" than "female sexuality"

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I dunno that I would insist on that. I think the perspective that it does mean there's something wrong is at least as valid