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straight women: imagine a setup where u have a loyal primary partner/husband/babydaddy who u live with and have frequent sex with, and then you also go out and have more casual sex with new men every now and then for novelty or validation. Your men are all chill with this.

am woman this sounds good
8.3%
am woman, this sounds bad
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am not woman/results
84.9%

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6:06 AM · Oct 24, 2022

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Frankly, the desire to sleep with other people (separate from admiring/flirting/feeling attracted to) feels like a warning sign that something is wrong in the ship.

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it can be, but it's also often not; lots of people naturally feel urges for sexual novelty that's totally independent of relationship health! Your partner feeling interested in others does *not* mean there's anything wrong with you or your bond.

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I think the more interesting question is, would she tell her friends about the hypothetical arrangement?

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@KingTerry_D

Oct 24, 2022

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@Aella_Girl

We should punish adultery, especially from women since it guarantees somebody is being cucked and wasting their resources on at least part of their family. Punished for men too, but a single mother can raise a healthy kid

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It’s criminalized in the US military, and everyone hates that

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This is the way, symmetrically of course. Been doing this over a decade, AMA.

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I think it sounds fine for people who are chill with it. I mean it sounds good for me. But if you want this you should actively seek partners who are okay with it, instead of trying to convince unwilling people to participate in this arrangement.

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A society with perfect contraception where this was normal would probably be pretty nice, but negative attitudes toward casual sex are so ingrained in our culture that I feel most people aren't able to properly imagine such a society.