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Aella
@Aella_Girl
If you're the kind of person who will wanna cheat on your partner, then you probably shouldn't be getting into monogamous relationships! Unfortunately this is like 15-25% of the population; lots of you have been monogamypilled when you're not suited to it.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
And that's just the population which *acts on it*; who knows how many more people would really prefer more sexual partners but can't due to logistics or shame.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
You definitely shouldn't be cheating, but also probably society has some blame here? Like imagine a happy 50's nuclear family where the man is secretly gay and cheating on his wife with other men. This sucks, this is bad, but also his culture didn't really give him a choice.
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Beezy
@BeezyManzell
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@Aella_Girl
This ignores how many people are monogamous under duress. When you first meet someone, you generally don't know if they're strictly poly or monog. Heck, you don't even find out if someone's no-sex-till-marriage until the third date.
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mimi
@mimi10v3
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@Aella_Girl
The annoying thing is ppl who will say they’re not suited to their partners being with anyone else but they’re also not suited to monogamy themselves.
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@RinconAmarillo_
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@Aella_Girl
The problem, dear Aella, is that not everyone has the same chances of finding a new partner. As a man, you may fantasize about having several sexual partners, but if you lack the skills or attractiveness to get even one in the first place, Why would you go into polyamory?
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RoccoRoc
@RoccoRoc4
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@Aella_Girl
Poly could be as a normalized monogamy but it will never stop human nature and human feelings of possession and jealousy. No societal changes can stop human instincts & emotions. We are wired that way. There will just be poly cheating instead monogamy cheating…
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SugarRay
@SugarRayLaoshi
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@Aella_Girl
People who cheat in a monogamous relationship will almost certainly cheat in a polyamorous relationship too. I'm inclined to believe this is more a personal issue than a societal one.
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Cassandra Sky
@CassandraSky10
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@Aella_Girl
This strikes me more as a matter of fame than people being locked in the monogamy box? Famous/successful dudes have greater means to have multiple partners and often do if they have the chance.