been so horny lately, such a shame texas's manly men are so trad. nothing snaps my vagina shut faster than any possibility u might look down on me for sluttiness; no friggin way im gonna bang u if sex is zero sum
I'm realizing this is partially why it's so relaxing to hang out in communities that are mostly polyamorous, cause there's so much acceptance of sex there. but most of austin culture I've run into is monogamous! haven't found majority poly dude cluster yet
turgid men all in my dms rn, u have an incentive to present yourselves as sex positive, but I'm not buying it. come back to me when you're dating a girl you love who is also dating another man and then maybe you'll be attractive
can't believe I have to clarify but I'm being slightly tongue in cheek, I obvs have been attracted to people not in relationships, but if you're a stranger being horny in my DMs asking for my vagina I get to ask for whatever the fuck I want, and what I want is costly signaling
What’s the essential difference these days between hook-up culture and polyamory?
Maybe it’s my GenX foibles, but I would consider a requisite of polyamory to include chemistry between not just me and the object of my newfound affection but also betwixt my loyal partner and her.
And if the situation were reversed, I’d need to think of him as a brother from another mother before I’d be okay with it. It’d have to be a mutually high bar, or so I’d like to think.
For me it’s fascinating to think about but all theoretical, having ever been with my only one.
How about an active cucking relationship with a platonic friend who bullies you with her sexual exploits while youre also in love with her at the same time, all of this with complete open cards