recently had an experience as a 'model' for a coaching thing helping men be more... embodied (tho imo ultimate goal is helping them get laid, which i support) and ive really been chewing on it. 1/
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i've made a few attempts at writing a blog post about it, but it's hard cause a) i'm realizing some genuine vulnerability, like i like helping men get laid *in theory*, but actually handing them seductive power over me is terrifying, lot to unpack there 2/
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and b) trying to figure out how much i wanna say about the coaching practice/coach itself, cause maybe i wanna recommend it to others? and maybe i wanna help with the coaching? but it feels weird to make myself visibly associated with someone really good at getting laid
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not cause there's any issues with it, but like... i think of it as a milder version of the k-pop thing, where the female members of the band are supposed to never date anyone, i feel like im supposed to keep my image totally free from being even near any seductive men
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i don't fully understand this impulse, but it's there, and it's making it hard/confusing to write about my (admittedly limited!) experiences around seduction coaching. something like "you're not supposed to see what i think is hot in a way that makes me vulnerable"!
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ngl there was one guy there, a bit older, who i was 0% into, like he was just any random dude, and then after some of the coaching i found myself thinking 'you know if he just took me rn i'd probably be down' and feeling that switch in me is TERRIFYING
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You don't want to overtly tell guys how to push your buttons because you can imagine them practicing this coaching on you in particular.
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I was just thinking that what I like is the scent and smell from the small of your neck, then lightly nibbling and breathing next to your ear, moving to your eyes and lips..letting the heat overwhelm you.
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Vulnerable to what, being seduced into good sex? Difference to preventing cooking class men from learning your favorite recipe?
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