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Sep 18, 2022

Insofar as sexual/kink expression involves others, it is a question of consent. Overt autogynephilia which utilizes new ideas of trans rights to involve others into sexual activity/ force their compliance is predation.

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Aella

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Sep 17, 2022

this seems fine to me? It's the teacher's body, let them do what they want with it. i kinda feel like you being weirded out is your business. twitter.com/ReduxxMag/stat…

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I think the consent framework tends to break down around the edges, and this is one of the situations that seems to fall right around the edges. And I am super anti the radtransrights insanity, but I still support trans rights, and am sus that ppls response is driven by disgust

9:17 PM · Sep 18, 2022

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Why does it fall around the edges here? Seems fairly clear cut to me? And I’m not sure if disgust motivation here is inappropriate. I find pedophilia disgusting, I find incest disgusting… feels like thar feeling is both appropriate and useful in some contexts.

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I find pedophilia *harmful* and want it to stop because it's harmful. I find incest harmful in cases it leads to reproduction. I also find them disgusting, but I also find like, needle play disgusting, or for a long time felt disgusted by gay men.

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Has the ratio moved you on this subject at all? Genuinely curious.

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not even a little bit, my mind doesn't get changed by a mob yelling at me

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Is all disgust bad? Is disgust sometimes a useful warning, like fear?

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Instead of thinking about this as a "kink" perhaps we should think of this as a minstrel show of sorts, but instead of blackface you have "womanface". I find curious that someone who rightly finds a problem with the former is now stretching reason to justify the latter.

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Exhibitionism is one of the coercive paraphilias (which are generally lifelong, according to Dr. Soh’s research). It is coercive because lack of consent is exactly what is desired. Lack of consent is the point. Lack of consent is the actual fetish. Lack of consent IS the turn-on.

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Why should the norm be to constantly disgust normal people?

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I support reasonable trans rights for those coping with dysphoria. These aren’t the actions of someone trying to pass and blend in.

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Methinks, if you use your target audience to get a boner from being seen in boobs rather than focusing on your work (education and safety), maybe reconsider some values. Around the hood dress in three boobs and install LEDs there, but sometimes venue standards exist for a reason