It sounds less like curiosity is your love language and more like you just want your partner to know who you are. Like, passing the newlywed game is your love language.
How can love language not resonate if you have certain ways you want to be treated by your partner that make you feel secure or happy? That's all it is.
Love comes with curiosity
for one another, so
we get to know us thoroughly
and let each other know.
The love that made us human and
gave us our peace and wealth
does let us know each other and
thus also know ourselves.
If a girl asks you a dozen questions in an evening, she loves you
If a girl asks you 200 questions in an evening, she loves asking questions (and probably makes good Twitter polls)
Same. I couldn't relate much to the five love languages - the important thing for me was missing: Making me feel understood. Making an effort to engage with my mind. It is not words of appreciation though that probably is closest.