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my fav kind of relationship is with a dude who dates other girls, who lets me date other boys, who helps throw orgies with me, we help each other get laid with a 'fuck yeah congrats!' so when ppl are like 'aren't u worried boys wont date u cause of sex work' im like... wait what
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it feels like... im a scuba diver, in scuba diver communities, dating scuba divers, and someone goes 'but are u afraid some ppl wont date u cause they dont like water' and im like... that really doesn't feel like the kinds of problems i have with relationships at this point
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sure sometimes we fight over what brand of oxygen tank to use or communication difficulties that happen when you're underwater but it seems like you're not conceiving of the idea that there's a whole world out there where 'liking water' is just a basic, entry-level filter
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Thinking about bubbles and Dunbar numbers. It’s possible to find 250 people who make up your entire world, no matter how niche the shared set of beliefs.
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so much of their existence is at the foundational trust and affinity level of something we have built skyscrapers atop. it's like trying to discuss if people evolved from apes while working in a complex genomics lab
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Not everything comparable with everything.. You cannot justify something by finding a irrelevant comparison. That's not a logical argument to me. That's not the right way of thinking.