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I love my own promiscuity, zero regrets in my life. But I also wish culture helped ppl know faster whether the casual sex path is right for them! Instead of feeding a narrative about which path u should take, we should giving ppl the tools to seriously meditate on their desires.

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Bridget Phetasy

@BridgetPhetasy

Aug 17, 2022

This one was hard to write. It only took four years. Thank you to @Louise_m_perry for inspiring me to finally finish this piece. bridgetphetasy.substack.com/p/slut-regret

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

Many people are artificially suppressed into having much less sex with way fewer people than they want to to be having sex with, and others are pressured into dismissing genuine discomfort they might have with sharing their sexuality with others. Both are bad!

5:36 AM · Aug 18, 2022

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Nicely put

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Some people simply are not attractive enough in any of the dimensions of attraction, things like beauty, charisma, status, confidence, "coolness" to attract partners for the amount of sex they want to have.

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yes and- ive also found that a lot of people within these groups are almost happier grumbling and complaining about being suppressed, rather than taking action to work towards a more equitable life-situation for themselves. (not all, about half-ish maybe?)

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people don't wanna make better choices, they wanna make shitty choices and then complain about the shitty outcomes

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@SirSardonic

Aug 18, 2022

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@Aella_Girl

I would argue that the latter is a lot more common than the former, but yes, they are both bad!

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I would rather have lower quantity of partners and higher quality. However I lean very asexual as time has gone on I have lost my interest and I am wondering if it's from being a sex worker or constantly being on birth control steroid. I do wish for more education.