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Aella
@Aella_Girl
I love my own promiscuity, zero regrets in my life. But I also wish culture helped ppl know faster whether the casual sex path is right for them! Instead of feeding a narrative about which path u should take, we should giving ppl the tools to seriously meditate on their desires.
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Bridget Phetasy
@BridgetPhetasy
This one was hard to write. It only took four years. Thank you to @Louise_m_perry for inspiring me to finally finish this piece. bridgetphetasy.substack.com/p/slut-regret
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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@Aella_Girl
Many people are artificially suppressed into having much less sex with way fewer people than they want to to be having sex with, and others are pressured into dismissing genuine discomfort they might have with sharing their sexuality with others. Both are bad!
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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yes! ive had a lot of bad casual sex, but over time i realized the answer wasn't to stop having casual sex, but to figure out how to have more satisfying casual sex.
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Bridget Phetasy
@BridgetPhetasy
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@Aella_Girl
Yes, I have a lot to unpack in this regard. Many more essays to write. There are aspects of my liberation from the oppressive double standards that I don't regret at all. But my promiscuity wasn't coming from as solid a place as yours sounds like it was and that's the difference.
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Mike
@TSowell4prez
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@Aella_Girl
You don't obviously can live however you want. I just don't believe you love your promiscuity. I guess it's possible to enjoy a strictly sexual interaction with nothing else connected but I can't see how that could be satisfying or fulfilling.