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What's your gender? || in every couple there's one person who loves the other more. You'd rather be the one who loves ___ (h/t

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male | more
33.9%
male | less
50.3%
female | more
5.5%
female | less
10.3%

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7:25 AM · Aug 17, 2022

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Male and female aren't genders. They're sexes. Gender is a nonsense concept.

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I'm hopelessly obsessive and codependent. If my partner loves me more, we have a serious problem.

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I *would* rather be the one who loves more, but I tend to be the one who actually loves less. My emotions don't peak as high as others, but I'm steadily happy. Results in some conflict, when I need my space more than my partner.

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reminds me of "The Hunting Gun" by Yasushi Inoue

Tim: mastodon.partipirate.org/@Morosoph

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I love loads, so if I could be in a relationship where my partner loved me more, that would be amazing!

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Ideally it's an active competition.

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I 'want to' be the one that loves more. But marriage laws make it so much harder to be that one because I know my spouse could leave at any time and take half of everything I ever built for 'us'. Men want to feel appreciated and valued but most of the time we're just a wallet