What's your gender? || Would you be happier having sex only with people you were committed to?
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- male | yes50.5%
- male | no35.6%
- female | yes9.9%
- female | no4%
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If you are a woman and you answered no, you are lying to yourself
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No. I'm not poly, more like mono-open; I only want one life partner, but I don't want to be the only set of genitals my partner gets to enjoy during our time together, and I would like the same freedom in return.
I’m a virgin, so I can’t answer definitively, but I think I’d prefer to have sex with people to whom I’m emotionally attached, not strangers, though I don’t feel the need to be in a committed relationship with them.
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As someone already happy with a committed arrangement, it seems correct to answer “no” in that I’m already happy, and I can’t imagine what change “yes” would imply?
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I only want to be physically intimate with people I share a loving connection with. That is not the same as requiring commitment.
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I went with "no", but the answer is pretty sensitive to what's meant by 'committed'
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Yea but it would be great if I were committed to one main partner plus several good friends who served as special guest stars that together all satisfied 110% my major kinks
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I guess it would depend on the value of novelty.
Is sex a way of communicating affection or is it just a thing you can do that feels good? The former is better for commitment and the latter is better for novelty.
Basically, what does sex mean to you?
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man, i would love this question to be studied more properly. e.g. include a confidence score and explanations/evidence supporting it!
i voted male/no, but i have very low confidence coz of lack of experience