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What's your gender? || Most of the time, do your sexual fantasies include interaction with someone you have emotional attachment to? (It counts if the person is fictional, but in the fantasy you are emotionally attached)

male || yes
47.5%
male || no
38.7%
female || yes
9.3%
female || no
4.5%

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4:50 AM · Aug 8, 2022

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I feel like I have one foot in trad female sexuality and the other in male. I'm into most fem kinks, just way way more extreme. But I also really prefer multiple sexual partners, fantasize almost exclusively with ppl i have no attachment to, and prefer visual (over written) porn

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i don't really want to have sexual fantasies about any of the people i have emotional attachment to, and i don't really want to make up imaginary people to have imaginary emotional attachment to and sex with, so

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hm, it could go either way for me, so it's difficult i tentatively put m | yes

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I know alot of people are into just casual hookups, but i cant imagine having sex with someone im not SUPER close to. It doesnt help that i dont have the strongest self image, and would only be comfortable being naked in front of people i really trust.

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All of my fantasies rest first and foremost on someone being really into me. This is probably because I have HAD all the anonymous sex I'm interested in having, so I'm not gonna wish for more of it.

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I'm honestly not really sure how to answer this one. I'm leaning towards no just cuz my kinks dont really work that way. They are more situational and have little to do with specific people involved.

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I'm weird in the sense that everyone I fantasize about i would not actually date or have any emotion for other than lust. However it negatively impacts my actual relationships as im not able to feel lust for a romantic partner.

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I don't know how to interpret "emotional attachment". Because in some fantasies, let's say I kidnap a woman, wish to tourment her/and make her a slave. I would say I have an emotional attachment to her, either at first why I chose her and not someone else, or it growths over time