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Sasha Chapin
@sashachapin
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@Aella_Girl
Thinking of it as an alignment makes it make so much sense to me, when poly people give me logical arguments I’m just like “that’s coherent but lol sounds like a pain in the ass,” my objections are really strictly aesthetic and emotional, and the symmetrical case must be true
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Bella Rudd
@BellaRudd1
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@Aella_Girl
same for me tbh (tho 'expectations of professional conduct' & being overseas in places or under legal codes that aren't as accepting of alternative lifestyles has meant i've had to negotiate some shitty compromises with monog/merely nominally poly people)
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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@D_E_C_A_Y_
this feels like a mistake to me; women can get laid easier, but generally refuse to. men and women have the same amount of heterosexual sex, on average.
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Curt Tigges
@CurtTigges
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@Aella_Girl
Is it usually something people just "know" right off the bat? I've never really had the "but I'd be jealous" objection to it, but it sounds like *far* more trouble and complication than it would be worth (for me personally, of course; I'm no prescriptivist).
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Cat
@ritavita4
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@Aella_Girl
I didn't know about it when I was 22 (im 40 now) and my boyfriend at the time told me I didn't love him when I broached the topic of openness. I didn't understand what he meant
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