Would you attend a party where in order to enter, you had to place three visible identity labels on your body. The labels come from a few dozen possible labels, all of them vaguely derogatory.
Would you attend a party where upon entering, you draw a rule from a hat that gives you a rule on how to behave (e.g., any time someone coughs, you must stand up and turn around). You must try to follow the rule without anyone else guessing what your rule is.
Would you attend a party where everyone must hold out a thumb that moves according to your interest whenever someone talks. Sideways means "neutral," down means "not very engaged," and up means "very engaged/interested in what you're saying"?
Would you attend a nonconsent roleplay orgy where sexual consent is an assumed default (with a safeword), and where people wear wristbands to indicate whether they're a receiver or aggressor, and you can have sex with anyone you want/have people have sex with you forcefully?