Conversation

if a dude avoids me to appease his monog girlfriend, i kinda wanna tell her she really doesn't have to worry, i'm sexually unattracted to guys with boundaries weak enough that they're willing to sacrifice normal human interaction for their gfs anyway

586

Aella

@Aella_Girl

Jul 6, 2022

(for my dude friends this applies to, ur cool, i understand it's easy to lose boundaries in relationships, i think most men could end up in this situation, most of my bitterness is at the gfs for completely miscalculating the kind of thing i'm attracted to in men)

111

Replying to

How do you determine if his motivation is to appease his SO or if it's his own volition?

Aella

@Aella_Girl

Replying to

@db_roosevelt

the (multiple) men who've told me about this have said explicitly it's to appease their SO

4:57 PM · Jul 6, 2022

Replying to

and

I frequently have people tell me I need to block some of THEIR friends, which I typically do because I don't know - or need to know - why they're setting that boundary. There are creepers and meddlers online, after all. But I refuse to block any of MY friends for someone else.