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being obligate kinky kinda sucks sometimes, cause it's hard enough finding someone who's attractive, and then if you *do* find them attractive it's unlikely you'll be sexually compatible. Gay ppl have kinda same problem, but at least they have lots of good dating apps!

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R. Leon Noble for Oregon Governor 2022

@Noble4ORGov2022

Jun 17, 2022

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@Aella_Girl

so you're saying that your kinks are required in all your relationships? i'm not sure that makes sense to have that rigidity in your thinking. i've taken on new relationships that had none of my kinks and found that they just hadn't tried them.

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@Aella_Girl

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unfortunately the thing that arouses me is the other person being really, strongly aroused by a specific thing.

7:13 PM · Jun 17, 2022

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R. Leon Noble for Oregon Governor 2022

@Noble4ORGov2022

Jun 17, 2022

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@Aella_Girl

i completely understand. i have the same problem. fortunately mine is just forced orgasms and rag dolls.

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And what is that one highly specific thing?

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so is this like listening to someone talk passionately about a really nerdy subject but with kinks instead? I think most people really hide that aspect of themselves normally. Except for the new "gooner" trend