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being obligate kinky kinda sucks sometimes, cause it's hard enough finding someone who's attractive, and then if you *do* find them attractive it's unlikely you'll be sexually compatible. Gay ppl have kinda same problem, but at least they have lots of good dating apps!

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I also suspect being attractive adds a secondary challenge in the form of people willing to briefly attempt or pretend to have the kink in order to have other kinds of sex.

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oh yes I am so hesitant to tell ppl who have sex with me what my kinks are because of this

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You need the inverse of Catfish. "Undercover Kink"/"Mystery Kink". The ability to remain anonymous until certain facts are established but a baseline attractiveness is assured.

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Someone needs to build an app for safely comparing kinks with someone you’re already dating. It would privately compare both your lists and display only the overlap.