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I'm down with this if you apply it consistently - if any preference someone has for how they want their partners to behave - like the guy who doesn't want his girlfriend to have friends or leave the house - is not controlling, but simply "how you want to live"
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Something i was very confused about & feel clear on now: How is it not controlling to prefer that your partner isn’t sexual with other people? My answer: we’re allowed a preference & its not controlling to say “this is how i want to live; if youre into it lets do it together”
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To each their own, but it's supremely important that we don't forget there is always a deep reason cultural norms develop in the first place. Throwing them out en masse without understanding the consequences is often deadly.
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