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In your culture, is it acceptable for someone in a serious relationship to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex?

totally fine, zero issue
41%
mostly ok but a lil sus
43.6%
pretty sus, frowned upon
12.5%
very not okay
2.9%

6,058 votesFinal results

1:35 AM · May 19, 2022

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David Schneider-Joseph (@dsj@sigmoid.social)

@TheDavidSJ

May 19, 2022

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In my culture, it's very not okay to take issue with this.

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Half the people on this poll have crazy girlfriend energy

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I picked the 2nd option but my actual answer is it depends. If he's meeting up with an old friend he's known a long time, no problem. If he came to me and was like "I made a new friend, she & I are hanging out tonight" that would be pretty sus. IOW, length of friendship matters.

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Doesn't it matter time of day? Getting lunch is different from going out at 8pm for drinks

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It's not a matter of culture but trust.

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My personal culture: I would never ever suggest to a partner that she couldn’t or shouldn’t do that. I’d trust her.

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Depends on where the "hanging out" is taking place.

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I don't even know anymore. I have friends who are like "sorry I have to block you on FB and delete you from my contacts bc of my boyfriend, so don't text me but I'll still be on Discord." And I'm like "Girl 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩"

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What the cuck is this?!