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there's so many nonobvious social norms! If someone asks u to meet for coffee, how long does coffee last? should you make 'leaving' moves after 30 minutes? four hrs? when someone asks to buy you a drink at a bar, this means they want to talk to you - nobody tells you this stuff!
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i figured out the bar drink thing after i happily approached my friends at a bar with a drink and was like 'look what a nice stranger got for me' and they were like 'and you just left him?' and i was like '....yes? why?'
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this event happened pre-escorting; i did figure it out pretty early, but my complaint is that at no point did anyone ever tell this to me; some things people mean literally and other things they don't and there's no guidebook for which means which
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