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Aella
@Aella_Girl
Sometimes you can have unreasonable feelings, in the sense that you don't "condone" them, but they exist anyway. For example, "I'm mad people don't want to fuck me" - obvs you might not actually believe people *should* fuck you, but the emotion's still there Anyway, one of mine:
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
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@Aella_Girl
I'm fully aware this doesn't make "sense" - I have been clearly optimizing for men giving me money through resources and have historically tended to date men much less financially secure than me, so I know it's not actually anyone else's fault.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
But knowing what is reasonable to feel usually doesn't change what you actually feel, and for a long time I would suppress and ignore what I actually felt - without even realizing I was suppressing it - if it seemed an "unreasonable" feeling.
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Aella
@Aella_Girl
But i def got a trad side that wants to be financially supported by a boy who loves me. maybe this trad side evolved out of dating too many homeless boys? at this point im like fuck it, im not dating a single additional homeless boy no matter how charming he is
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Estelle Lucas
@Estelle_Lucas
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@Aella_Girl
Mine is that I hate how focused and driven I become when trying to prove someone wrong/get back at them rather than the commitment to be a better person 😭😭😭 all my greatest achievements come from spite
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EricArrrrr
@OakPaul
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One thing about relationships is that the day to day attention and life together should be more important than any gift or gesture. So maybe it matters less that your partner doesn't give you things as long as they give you attention every day. /1
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