Do you have abandonment issues || do (or would) do you love being super affectionate during sex
- yes | yes26.4%
- yes | no6.6%
- no | yes45.5%
- no | no21.6%
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i wonder if this is why i like non-affectionate sex, cause some part of my brain reeeeally avoids people with abandonment issues?
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I don't know if I would be or not. I think I would be but honestly have no idea.
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Definitely. I've even felt the "mother wiring" activating while with a lover. My brain starts seeing her as a radiant mother figure. The resulting relaxation, love, & trust is transcendent. My birth mother was schizophrenic so that gave me a lot of issues in early years probably
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By affectionate, are you referring to giving a massage/ soft touching etc, or is this more of a lovey dovey thing?
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What are some examples of being super affectionate. I think when I’m “in” that’s pretty affectionate to me idk 😂
