Narrating internal conflict around wanting to have casual sex because i'm horny THREAD 1/
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Ok so wanna get laid. Seems simple, right? But I want to get laid with *sex I like*. There's ways to figure out if I'm likely to enjoy sex with someone though, I can talk about it with them first or do a sex survey or whatever.
But first issue: this is scary
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As in, it removes all plausible deniability. As soon as I do this, it's fully clear that I'm considering having sex with the person, and then incentives get fucked - I can't let them know what I like, or they're gonna be likely to say they like it too.
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>I can't let them know what I like, or they're gonna be likely to say they like it too.
Is this really a problem for casual sex? I think most males are flexible and would happily humor the sexual preferences of a potential mate if it gets them laid?
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I see 4 categories:
(1) things they're especially aroused by,
(2) things they'd enjoy but not in Category 1,
(3) 'meh' things they'd do just for their partner,
(4) things that repulse them.
I'd guess, for most men, most fall in Cat 2. A poll on this might be interesting!